There are several ways to send money from another country, including bank transfer, wire transfer, or sending a check in the mail. If this hasn't happened yet, I'm sorry to say I don't think you will be getting your money or parts any time soon. Not making excuses for the man, but it sounds like he has been through a lot recently, and this is probably not a priority for him. I was going to order a few manuals from him, but this has given me pause. Sorry you are going through this.